All relationships take work to make them successful. That fact has caused much confusion as people try to decide what exactly that work is, how much work is too much and how much work needs to be done to make the relationship worthwhile. However, there's a big difference between working on a relationship and wasting your time. If you note any of these signs of a bad relationship, then it's time...

Deception......Part 1 A lot of people feel bad when they find out that they have been deceived and generally I would like to think that you would frown upon another person deceiving the other but there are always two sides to a story. Let me tell you about Kunle and Shade. They were both professional in their own right. They had very good jobs and were getting on with the busin...

I have always thought it interesting how much we all take for granted. Our human nature seems to be very well wired for the over-looking of the very things which are most important. In relationships, people may over-look their partners, especially when they are always loyal, always reliable, always trustworthy and always ready to “catch a grenade” for the one they love. On the o...

Grassroot Football is all about the young aspiring football players who want to have fun while learning the basic skills & techniques of football. It must be simple, exciting and rewarding for all the children invovled. Most children like to play football with their collegues either in school or in their community. Along with other elements of grassroot football is the t...

I walked through that valley, down the hill, I can’t say, this is the accurate time, but it is the hour between the darkest night and the wee hour of the morning. I could notice the harsh whistle of the breeze that paved her way into the Mother Nature. The swampy dark green leaves bowed down to the right and to the left like a masquerade dancing alone in the middle of the forest. The thic...

If the story ended there it would have been tragic, but even now no one knows if to call the story more tragic as it goes on. Ify wept over the sad incident and called on friends and kept weeping over and over to find consolation. She wept out loud and friends came around. Friends whom they had been flocking with and who had equally been waiting for the relationship to crash. They all c...

Why do we set rules for marriage? Is marriage not suppose to be for love and companionship? We human have rules for everything, there is a procedure and guidelines for  everything we do, even in the matters of love, which is meant to be unconditional, why will a man want to marry a lady because she can wash and cook for him and give her conditions that if she cannot wash his clot...

I discovered that most people that goes into relationship often expect to get from the other party what  they themselves cannot offer in return...and that is what I  called unrealistic expectations. People intentionally tell lies and still  expect to hear the truth from their partners. There is indeed a high level of self deception among ...

After six months of marriage, do you: A) Find out “surprising things” about your husband (aka signs you chose to ignore while you were trying to trap him) and then wish you didn’t marry him? B) Finally decide you can’t stand your in-laws (the ones whom you were kissing up to just to get the guy)? These are some of the common excuses you here nowadays from young...

TRUE LOVE AND HEARTBREAK It seems some are lucky while others always end up bandaging their hearts. Why do fools fall in love indeed. It seems too hard to guess, especially when it is always said that love is so hard to come by these days. We just have people hooking up and getting married. I have three sisters and all three found love. My second sister is getting married soon and it was love....