Many start dating or enter into a relationship without first ascertaining if the person is fit, suitable and qualified to be a potential marriage mate. While this is so is because many are attracted to superficial qualities such as gregarious, handsomeness, beauty and richness. Granted these qualities are not in themselves bad, there are other essential inner and beautiful traits you need to look out for in a prospective mate that will lead to your eternal happiness in a solid relationship or marriage life.
Now before you can ascertain if a person is right for you, there is a great need to know yourself first. Knowing oneself is not really an easy task; is more than knowing your favorite color or pet however you can know yourself by asking some essential questions such as what are my long and short term goals? What are my weaknesses and strength? What are my emotional and romantic needs? What things do I enjoy doing? What are my personalities and values? Answer to these fundamental questions will help you to understand your real self.
When you have understand yourself perfectly it will help you to know a prospective mate that is just right for you. It is vital to look out for someone who will compliment you as a person, someone who will amplify your personalities trait, some who will help turn your weakness to strength, in a nutshell someone who will bring out the very best in you.
Is anyone just right?: Many out of desperation will answer yes, perhaps they have been in search of a partner for long and they suppose just anyone will suffice. It is really worthy to note that not ANYONE is right for you. Let's illustrate this fact with an example; you enter a boutique and see a cloth that caught your attention however after you test the cloth you discover that it is too tight for you, will you still buy the cloth? The logical answer is no, because it is not sensible to move around with a cloth that is not suitable and well fitted. Same is true in a relationship someone who does not compliment your very being is not right for you. A person who you will not be comfortable and happy with you is not really fit to be your prospective mate.
